its seems such a simple concept yet why is it that every person seems to have a theory on not wanting it even if its obvious what they are looking for... To want something and need to decide on something else is no excuse as a conscious decision is just that, an idea put into practice based on a want not a need too... So if this is the case then the practiced or put into practiced part must be the want superseeding all previous? What im thinking is actually simple... If you wnat something its what you want, thats it.. If you decide on something else it means its the prefered... Why is it so simple for the obvious to be clouded by emotion for minutes yet the potential result is the opposite of whats wanted?...
This is what im still trying to really work out more than anything.. Seems its easier for the pretend side in us all to take over rather then voice opinions on topics of importance....meaning... if somethings not ideal, let me say nothing to solve it and if its not solved ill realise its not the ideal... i guess thats one way of looking at it, but then hey... thats the decision isnt it?, that its not ideal and therefore the answer.... Wrong im told.. Emotion again plays the role of the excuse of the mind in play.... Mind over Heart.. I think this is the bullshit excuse part everyone uses to allow others to see them as having been wronged.. The quick fix seems to be the long haul of emotion setting in as the decision on emotion is not one from the right space of mind and rather anger and hence the realisation of the wrong one.... well, shit happens hey?
Just incase for next time, realise that the real fix is saying what is what and trying to have what you want the way you want it..... For the above mentioned though, it has been known to be resolved, but sometimes the time in between becomes long enough for the mindset of what is wanted to change to something else..... guess its a race of emotion to be resolved mentally.... the result... whoever gets there first.....
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